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Fairyland, Flock of Seagulls and a sleepover with Auntie

Tuesday, August 10th, 2010
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Well, sadly, there are not too many recent pics of the girl, so this one of us at Fairyland in Oakland will have to suffice.

In just two days, Cameron will be a year old! She’s just about outgrowing the Ergo (the carrier she’s sitting in) and even some of her 12-month PJs are seeming small! She’s about to move on up to the next sized diaper, too. So, clearly, she is growing!!

She has such a strong interest in sharing the food we’re eating (and she really does share!), we’ve jumped the gun on wheat and corn (she’s on Day 3)–luckily, with no adverse reactions–and, since she’s mastered drinking from a straw already, she tried her first Jamba Juice (a Peach Perfection made with peach juice and sans strawberries).


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So, to recap this past week, we visited Fairyland in Oakland on Sunday. We thought it would be fun to watch Watty Piper’s “The Little Engine That Could” (still a favorite–thanks Aunt Janice!!) as a musical and admission to Fairyland was included! Since we were going with Heather and Taliana and we all couldn’t fit in one car, we drove to Fremont in separate cars then took the BART into Berkeley (for some breakfast at Herbivore and some Cinnaholic vegan cinnamon rolls! Mmmmmm mmmm!) and, from Berkeley, we took the BART to Oakland where Fairyland is.

We didn’t have much time at Fairyland, but we figured all of the BART-ing around and treats were part of the adventure.

The kids had a great time riding BART as well as the little rides in Fairyland and they had fun using their Magic Key to listen to stories from the blue boxes around the park! They liked the musical as well (short, simple, but imaginative)!


waiting for Flock of Seagulls to take the stage
waiting for Flock of Seagulls to take the stage
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The weekend was actually very exciting. On Friday night (forgive my non-linear storytelling…I remember it better this way!), Auntie Christina and Dre came over (as did Uncle Steve) to come watch a free Flock of Seagulls concert down at the Boardwalk! This is Dylan eating his burrito from Vallarta while we wait for the band to take to the stage (Cameron, meanwhile, fell asleep while Tom was parking the car)!

Not quite sure what Dylan made of the whole thing, but he was stoked to see Teacher Sandy (from his preschool)–she came over to say hi, much to Dylan’s delight (and apparently, he sang “I Ran” for her the following Monday at school!) and to give the circulating beach ball a toss into the air!! Really, I think he’s “a natural” at this whole concert-going thing…!


c. is not thrilled to be awakened...!
c. is not thrilled to be awakened…!
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As you can see, Cameron woke up at some point during the show and she wasn’t all that happy (about the music or about waking up, we’re not quite sure…possibly both!)! But, she gamely hung out. Tom fed her dinner (potatoes, carrots, tofu) and this seemed to satisfy her!


lunch at hula's with auntie and uncle dre
lunch at hula’s with auntie and uncle dre
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Auntie Christina and Uncle Dre spent the night (Dylan was soooo excited about this!), so on Saturday, we got to hang out with them! We ended the visit with a late lunch at Hula’s and then had Heather, Assaf and Taliana over for dinner so that the kids could burn off a little more energy. Wouldn’t you know, they didn’t end up sleeping any earlier than usual?!?


Dylan starts swim lessons

Saturday, May 29th, 2010
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swim lessons
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Dylan finally started swim lessons! We had to miss the first lesson because of his bday party, so today, he had to figure out what some of the kids already knew — windshield wipers (to wipe water off their faces) and blowing bubbles in the “underwater cafe”.

Ok, so we made a wise choice in putting him in the beginner class. He really didn’t like putting his face in the water to blow bubbles.

The teacher got the other two gals to blow bubbles by telling them they could get anything in the underwater cafe–chocolate, donuts, pizza….So, they blew x number of bubbles which corresponded to x number of pizza or whatever it is they “dove” under for….But, Dylan? When asked what he wanted in the underwater cafe, what was his response??? “Nothin’”…Sigh!

Oh, and let me back up to the beginning of the class. Each student got to give the teacher a shower by dumping a whole bucket of water over her head! After they poured water on her (giggling all the while), she gave them a little “shower” and instructed them to wipe the water off their faces with their windshield wipers. As I watched this, I thought, uh oh, she should have started with Dylan so he wouldn’t know what was coming! Sure enough, when it came to his turn, she asked him if he wanted to give her a shower and he politely declined. She tried to encourage him with, “really?? You get to pour water all over your teacher’s head!” He just shrugged. Luckily, she’s a very patient teacher and she just poured water on his shoulders!

But, as you can see, he did have fun. The last few minutes of class involved a game where the teacher put swim rings around them and let them kick/float in the water. At first, Dylan thought doing a “big rocket” would be fun, but when water splashed into his mouth and eyes, he propelled himself back to the stairs (woo hoo!). The teacher swung him back out into the water and he really did have fun spinning around with her. He also really did start kicking on his own…pretty naturally!

Since we missed last week’s class, we’re taking him back tomorrow for a make-up class. He has already expressed hesitation, but hopefully, he’ll get into it…if even a little.


Cameron’s First Trip to LA

Thursday, September 10th, 2009
tom, cameron and grandparents
tom, cameron and grandparents
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The highlight of our trip was, of course, visiting family. Since Cameron is pretty much on a 3-hour nursing cycle, we figured we didn’t really have to drive while Dylan was asleep this time. We hooked Dylan up with a DVD, some snacks and some milk and headed out shortly after we picked him up from preschool!

Cameron did, in fact, make it all the way there with only one nursing stop (which coincided with our dinner time — we got Subway sandwiches)! We couldn’t have asked for it to work out better than it did…!

After getting some rest and visiting a little with Grandma Sharon in the morning, we had to head out for Anaheim and Disneyland. But, we returned on Sunday when family came by to meet Cameron. Unfortunately, after nursing, she promptly fell asleep and then she did her sleeping in the Peanut Shell thing that she does so well! I didn’t get much of an opportunity to take pictures….

She slept at Grandma Sharon’s, she slept at Madeleine Bistro, and she chilled at Uncle Michael’s and at Uncle Fred and Auntie Julie’s! Dylan, on the other hand, was sleep-deprived but wide awake and absolutely beside himself with joy the entire weekend. He thoroughly loved playing with Rocky, Uncle Michael and Grandma Sharon! We’re very grateful to have such warm and loving family and we’re looking forward to seeing everyone again in just a few short months!

Many more pictures are on flickr.

Back Log: Here’s a flashback to Dylan’s first trip to LA!


Cameron’s first trip to the redwoods

Monday, August 24th, 2009
cameron getting a diaper change at henry cowell
cameron at henry cowell
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On Friday, we joined Heather and her parents and her parents’ guest (a former student of Bozsi’s) for a short walk in Henry Cowell. At first, I wasn’t sure how we’d fare. I nursed Cameron before we left, but by the time we got there, it seemed like she was hungry again! Not wanting to delay everyone, I stopped on a bench and nursed her while everyone continued on ahead. I was able to catch up with them after a short time and, luckily, Cameron stayed asleep for the duration of the walk and through lunch! That was a whopping 2.5 hours or so. What luck!


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posing together
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Dylan had a great time because he could see Taliana. They examined the goosepens, climbed on burl, found sticks and leaves, and just had a blast running up and down the path!


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Since Roaring Camp is right next door to the park, we could hear train whistles while we walked! So, after finishing the loop, we headed next door and caught sight of a steam train just coming back into the station! All in all, a very exciting day for Dylan and a successful first outing with Cameron for us!


cameron jade cruz

Tuesday, August 18th, 2009
dylan's twin
dylan’s twin
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Yes! We finally had Cameron! She was born at 8:10pm on Wednesday, August 12th (a day before her cousin Tyler’s birthday!), 7 lbs. 13 oz. and 20.5 inches.

I woke up at 6am that morning with contractions about 15 minutes apart. After determining that they were continuing, I called my sisters, mom and Heather around 9am to warn them I might go into labor later in the day. As it turns out, I did!

The contractions were about 4-6 minutes apart at 10am, so I called the maternity center to see if I should come in. They informed me I was in early labor and that I should monitor contractions and call back in an hour, so Heather, the girls, Dylan, Tom and I went for a very short walk in the neighborhood during which it seemed my contractions were getting more intense. But, as soon as we got back home, the contractions spaced back out to 6 minutes apart. When I called Sutter again, they said it was common for contractions to get further apart and, if I could, I should try to make it to my 3pm appointment with my OB (this was to be the last of my appointments and the one during which we’d make plans to induce!).

Even though the contractions seemed consistently between 4-6 minutes, we all hung out at home. Cindy and Christina arrived to help take care of Dylan. He had a blast making mud pies and birthday cakes out in the backyard with Taliana and P.

As it turns out, I made it to my appointment but, by then, my contractions were about 4 minutes apart. When the doc checked me, I was 4cm dilated and 70% effaced. She advised us to check in at Sutter, across the street from her office, where they could check me again at 6pm. If I wasn’t in active labor by then, the plan was to either induce or let me go home for a few hours to labor some more.

Once checked in (by now it was about 4pm), I was determined not to labor forever, so Tom and I walked the stairs and hallway at Sutter for about an hour. By 6:30pm, I was dilated to 6cm and the nurse informed me I should get my labor support over here right away. As soon as I hung up the phone with my big sister (about 6:45pm), my water broke!

In the meantime, Heather had taken Dylan back to her house where he would spend the night (and my sisters and Heather had also cleaned our house!!). Then, Cindy, Christina and Heather arrived by 7-ish. By then things had already begun to pick up. Luckily, I got a room with a tub — the very same room in which Dylan was born! — so I rocked in the rocking chair until the tub was filled up and then I lay in the tub moaning until I felt like I just wanted to push.

The pain was pretty unbearable and I wasn’t sure if I could make it, so I asked for an epidural after just a few rounds of contractions out of the tub, but by that time, they told me that they could already see her head.

I could tell nobody was going to go get that epi! I was a little annoyed, but I also realized that if even Tom and my sisters and Heather were saying I could do it and she was almost there, it must be the case!


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In the end, I pushed for only 15 minutes (the longest 15 minutes of my life)! The on-call doctor arrived just in time to tell me to give just one more “gentle” push and there she was!!

They immediately placed her on my chest while they took my vitals and her’s. She tried nursing within that first hour and was pretty successful at latching on. After about an hour, I needed to get up, so they took the opportunity to bathe her and weigh her.

We’d given the staff a heads-up on Dylan’s bili scare, so everyone was very, very attentive to her bili levels. We were elated to take her home on discharge day (Friday). She did have a bili reading of about 8+ on her chest, but it was below the “alarm” level of 12!


dylan just loves holding cameron
dylan and cameron
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She is an amazingly mellow little gal — she’s slept through so much playing, cooking, talking, laughing, etc — and Dylan is The Most Amazing Big Brother Ever! He constantly wants to hold her, comfort her, kiss her, and tell her he loves her. He currently tells us that she’s “his” (as in his little sister). He’s very proud! We are also very proud of him. He’s been such a big boy, helping out with collecting laundry, picking things up for me when I drop them, etc. and, of course, he’s been so kind with Cameron.


bowling, bowling, bowling!

Friday, July 24th, 2009
enjoyin' the party
enjoyin’ the party
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We celebrated a couple of birthdays last weekend — Assaf’s and Ellie’s — and by some odd coincidence, both were bowling parties…on the same day! This was the first time that Tom and I ever bowled together and also Dylan’s first time at the bowling alley!

Of course, Dylan loved it, and never before have I seen bowling shoes as cute as the ones he got to wear at Bowling Party #2! It was also very, very cool because you could set up bumpers for individual bowlers on the same lane!

The lightest bowling ball available is 6 pounds, so we helped Dylan carry it over to the lane (mostly so he wouldn’t drop it on his toes!) and then he’d give it a good push…Without any assistance, it took the ball approximately 1+ minute to make it all the way down the lane!

Poor Tom, who is a fantastic bowler by report, was bowling injured — he still is nursing a sore hamstring and the steri-strips from a knife cut he got just 2 days earlier were still on his hand — and I was bowling pregnant, so neither of us had our best games. In fact, Dylan played a better game than I did!

Ellie’s bday was another awesome bowling bday party. It was at a bowling alley in San Jose which had a Back 9 room for private parties. We had 9 lanes all to ourselves, some set up with bumpers and others not. Mark and Yu-chen were also super awesome about bringing Ethiopian food for us to eat and serving a vegan birthday cake to their guests (we are forever grateful and feel so lucky to have such thoughtful friends!)!

Dylan got an awesome party favor — a Spongebob Squarepants bowling bag with a bowling set, Spongebob soccer ball, and inflatable soccer ball all stuffed inside! He has been setting up his pins in his “bowling alley”, the hallway near our dining room!


dylan’s bday circle at school

Saturday, May 23rd, 2009
Day 82: Dylan's bday banner at preschool
bday banner at preschool
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There were three May 20th birthdays at Dylan’s preschool this year, so the birthday circles were celebrated from Wednesday through Friday with Dylan’s on Thursday (his full day there)! This meant, he had yet another birthday celebration! For each birthday kid, the folks at school make a nice banner with the bday celebrant’s selected theme (of course, Dylan chose a train) and then they have a special circle time featuring the child’s favorite stories and songs. It was all so incredibly sweet.


Dylan's teachers asking him about his favorite songs and stories
Dylan with his teachers
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Dylan was really pretty shy during the entire thing. He definitely has favorite songs and stories, but when asked, he just took whatever suggestions were offered — a nice story about a train and a nice train song.


bday candle time
bday candle time
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After the story and songs, he got a special bday card with 3 knots tied on it while a little rhyme explaining each knot was recited. Then, everyone sang happy birthday and he got to blow out a candle on one of his special bday cupcakes.

It was the first time I’d stayed for an entire circle time, and I was impressed, not only with the attention showered on the kid, but also with their “curriculum” (which included a song in Spanish) and the way in which the teachers manage the kids….


Special Mother’s Day surprise

Wednesday, May 13th, 2009
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Well, I was spoiled again this year! Tom and Dylan sent beautiful flowers and made me a most delicious breakfast of apple cinnamon, mango crepe with homemade strawberry syrup — Dylan even got his own glass of bubbly juice — and then we headed over the hill for lunch with the family over at Sweet Tomatoes (this particular picture was taken by Auntie Christina who rode with us in our car)!


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the boys
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Before we left, we took a few pictures. Here is one of all of the boys (and we’re all very much looking forward to having a little girl join these fellas soon!).

Jason is already one of the big boys, but Tyler and Dylan still love each other to absolute bits and it’s really sweet to see them play together….


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And, here are the moms!

I didn’t want to forget to mention one of the best surprises I got this year! Dylan’s school has a sign-out book that the kids get to use — they can practice writing their names or, in Dylan’s case, they can scribble a little on their page. Well, when I went to pick up Dylan from school on Friday, he wanted to sign himself out so I told him to go ahead and look for his name in the binder while I signed him out from the grown-up sign-out sheet and, what do you know?? He found it! He’s been spelling his name for a while now and he is beginning to recognize some letters (D, R, M) with 100% accuracy, but this is the first time that he really picked his name out from a bunch of others (and it was written in mixed case!)!

I thought it may have been a fluke, but when I picked him up today, he once again found his name. He also has a name tag and a picture of himself inside a star (some old stuff from the 2-year old daycare group) which is clipped to his whiteboard, so maybe the patterns have just been getting more familiar to him because he sees these everyday!

Aside from that, he is also very sweet when we read books, using his finger to move along the words as if he’s reading all by himself. He is really working on reading the title of one of his current favorite books FLOTSAM. He reads it as: “this one and this one and O and this one and this one and this one and M!”

Back Log: Here’s a post from Mother’s Day 2008, and in 2007, Dylan’s special Mother’s Day surprise was taking 11 steps all on his own…!


dylan feels the baby kick

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009
dylan showing off his 'prison tattoos' as daddy-o called them
dylan showing off his ‘tats’
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Three days ago, Dylan woke up at the ungodly hour of 5am (he’d fallen asleep at 6:30pm, on the way home from celebrating Lola’s bday) and, of course, it was the little baby’s kicking time, so I put Dylan’s hand on my belly so he could feel her kick. He was so sweet and so excited, I wanted to note the moment down so I could remind him how eagerly he was awaiting her arrival in this world!

He often talks to the baby, or “shows” her things — all via my belly button(!!) — and that morning was no exception. After feeling a lot of little thumps, he started asking her if she wanted to look out the window (“do you want to look out the window, baby?” “do you see the school, baby?” etc. etc.). He always follows up with a question to me: “can she hear me, mommy?” It’s all so super sweet. Right now, he’s eager to play with her and share his food with her…We’re hoping that trend will continue but, of course, we know it won’t possibly be that smooth…!

By the way, the picture, taken on the day we celebrated my mom’s bday, is just cute and really has nothing to do with him feeling the baby kicks! I have much catch-up to do in posting about the many April birthdays we’ve celebrated this month!


new helmet, new Keens, new scooter skillz

Sunday, April 26th, 2009
Day 55: inspired by Anela, Dylan rode his scooter faster than he ever has!
Dylan and scooter
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On Friday, we made special play date plans with Cora, Anela and their mommy. We discovered a cute, little new-to-us park and, after seeing 5-year old Anela zipping around on her scooter, Dylan was inspired to speed off on his own…(as soon as we got home from school that day, he wanted to go outside to scoot around)!

That day was the first day that he really used his scooter outside, mostly because, up until last weekend, we didn’t have a helmet for him. Now, all he wants to do is scoot. We even had to take it to the Farmer’s Market on Saturday. I’m sure it is very motivating that Taliana has a scooter, too…and he got along really well with both Cora and Anela (who are as sweet as can be)! He really wants to scoot around with them!

Dylan also got his new Keens. The velcro on his old pair kept coming open, causing him to fall a lot or lose his shoe, so now that we don’t have to worry about him tripping over a shoe, we feel far more comfy with him scooting around outside…!