a busy day

We celebrated Taliana’s birthday twice this week! First, we had a little mini-celebration with her grandparents (and, of course, Heather and Assaf) on Thursday. This was a rescheduled event–her actual bday was Monday, but both kids were so tired, H. decided it would both be too rushed and too challenging to have it on a school night.

So, on Thursday, we had a yummy dinner (where Dylan declared and devoured all bell peppers shaped like candy canes) and watched Taliana open a few gifts.


The real bday celebration, with Taliana’s buddies — was today and it was another bowling bash! Cameron fell asleep before Tom arrived (he’d gone for a run and was meeting us there), so I basically had to try bowling with her snoozing in the Ergo!

I wasn’t the only one bowling with kid in hand…I just happened to be the worst (Dan actually bowled a strike or two!). And, Tom did bowl a few frames with Dylan–most of his throws went straight to the gutter!


After bowling, Taliana blew out candles on yet another birthday cake (an ice cream cake) and Dylan just totally devoured his Rice Dream ice cream cookie!


face painting by GigglePuss
face painting by GigglePuss
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Dylan’s gymnastics gym also had a grand opening today with free face painting, free gym time, and a free little gummy fruit snack! After the party was over, we headed over there with Taliana and Heather. It turns out the face painter is a co-worker of mine!! She painted a nice sun (Dylan’s choice) for Dylan and some flowers for Taliana.

We also saw the photographer who took pictures for the grand opening ad that was placed in the local newspaper (she kindly emailed me some photos of Dylan!) and a mommy friend we’ve known since Dylan was wee and still going to Mothersong regularly.


watching the bowlers
watching the bowlers
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But, as if that weren’t enough activity already, we also had tickets to see UCSC’s holiday show, “Mixed Nutz“. This show was absolutely amazing — a capella renditions of Tchaikovsky’s music, Cirque du Soleil-like acrobatics, high-school kids riding unicycles and little kids doing floor gymnastics — but what was even more amazing was Cameron soaking it all in and just loving it!

She barely made a peep aside from a couple of excited little chirps. She loved looking at the stage lights overhead and she actually watched the performances — it helped that their costumes were colorful, I’m sure. At points, she played with my hands and crammed my fingers into her mouth. With about 15 minutes left in the show, she sacked out right on my lap. Amazing.

Dylan and Taliana both clearly enjoyed the show also. Neither of them napped, but they made it all the way to the finish. At times during the show, Dylan would turn to me and say, “that’s so funny!” and during one of the acts, he asked, “how do they do that??” After the final bows, Dylan and I went down to buy some CDs from SoVoSo, the a capella group that performed the music. They were still on stage, so a few members signed the CDs we bought. All in all, a very fun and eventful day!!


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16 weeks

fell asleep with daddy at peet's. aww
asleep at Peet’s
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Today, Cameron is 16 weeks old, and I went back to my office. Since I still had to finalize work arrangements with my manager, Tom took the day off to watch the kids. After catching up on work stuff a bit, I met Tom and the kidlets at Peet’s so we could all go to Dylan’s story time together where I planned to nurse Cameron. The poor thing was so tired, though, she expressed little interest in eating…! Isn’t she just so sweet and wee-looking in this picture?

Tom took Dylan out to lunch after story time and after they were finished, I met them at Peet’s again to try nursing Cameron some more. Still groggy, she still didn’t nurse much! Dylan clearly loved spending the day with his daddy, though! He was as energetic as could be!


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this charming man

the look of joy

Yesterday, I ended my run at a local park where I met up with Tom and the kids. Dylan rode his scooter, admired the train, and played on the play structure and just generally had a good time, I think!

I love this picture I managed to get of him on the swing…Dylan just exudes joy!

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15 weeks 1 day

first Thanksgiving
first Thanksgiving
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On Thanksgiving Day, Cameron was at 15 weeks 1 day! She’s now squealing with joy when you do raspberries on her belly or give her belly kisses. She’s having a tougher time napping in the mornings, but she’s still getting in a good multi-hour nap in the afternoon (usually no longer than 2.5-3 hours).

She’s gotten so big, she’s already outgrown her Halloween outfits!

This week, we’re planning on testing out bottles with her as I prepare to return to work on December 2nd (and I continue to wonder how it can be that professionals proclaim the first 3 years of life to be the most important and yet there is little social support to help parents stay with their children until then–yes, I’m sad about returning to work)….

By the way, if you’re wondering what happened to the 14-week post, dear Cameron was 14 weeks old when we took our excursion to the California Academy of Sciences.


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Thanksgiving 2009

getting ready to trot
getting ready to trot
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We began this year’s Thanksgiving with an early morning turkey trot over in San Jose. This meant we pretty much had to have all of our cooking done by Wednesday night! Tom didn’t register to run this year, so after nursing Cameron one last time, I left at about 7am and he kindly stayed with the kids, packed them up in the car, and drove them over in time for Dylan to run the kids race! Three cheers for awesome daddy/hubbies!


dylan in action
dylan in action
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Dylan clearly had fun but at 60m long, his run was just way too short! He barely had time to pick up speed!


The race was super short, but Dylan loves his new medal and his new swag (a BPA-free Camelbak, hand sanitizer attached to a carbiner, and some crayons and a coloring sheet)! By the way, can you tell, daddy-o dressed our li’l gal?


my guitar hero, for sure
my guitar hero, for sure
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Immediately after the races, we made our way over to Lola’s house where the usual holiday madness and fun ensued. Tyler moonwalked, Dylan was (in his own words), “rock and rollin'”. We all played Guitar Hero and Rock Band, Tyler and Dylan did an art project. Of course, there was some sleepin’ and karaoke at the end of the evening!


As it is every year, we feasted like royalty. This year, we didn’t get the “tofurkey” from Tofoo Com Chay, though. Instead we got a Celebration Field Roast. All together, Tom and I made the gluten-free jalapeno-cheddar corn bread we made for the soup party, pioneer corn bread, roasted brussels sprouts with carmelized onions and toasted pistachios, candied sweet potatoes, potato-parsley-sage stuffing, and a kabocha squash pie. My mom made vegan corn bread pudding, collard greens, and a wild rice-mushroom stuffing, Cindy made some vegan mashed potatoes, and Christina made bruschetta appetizers and cranberry sauce.

We’re sorry we didn’t get a chance to visit with Eli and Rocky who were up visiting their grandma, but we’re looking forward to seeing everyone soon and hoping everyone down in LA had nice celebrations as well. We were certainly thinking of everyone.


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California Academy of Sciences

at Steinhart
at Steinhart
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This is the awesomeness of big sister, Auntie Cindy: she’s running a new magazine and she’s busy as all-get-out, but she makes time to spend with her kids nonetheless! The boys had a half-day at school because of parent-teacher conferences, so Cindy decided to pull them out of school for one day and take them (and us) to the California Academy of Sciences for the day.

It was an absolutely gorgeous day in San Francisco and it was a free day at the Steinhart Aquarium to boot! We ate lunch first, then explored the Green living display, the Rainforest display, and the aquarium. We saw tree frogs, toads, butterflies, all kinds of fish, sea dragons, sharks, stingrays, snakes, toads, and an albino crocodile! When all was done inside, we went outside to let the boys run around and play.


addressing her fans
addressing her fans
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Cameron, of course, was an absolute gem. After taking in the sights from the Ergo carrier, she went ahead and slept while we explored! Once we were outside, she loved looking at the leaves and trees and watching the boys run and play. She continues to impress everyone with her even temperament and her magnificent smiles.


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so many birthdays!

mastering chopsticks!
mastering chopsticks!
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First there was Auntie Heather’s birthday at the beginning of the month, then daddy’s, and still coming up, Grandpa Mike’s! We have been busy celebrating!! This picture is from Auntie Heather’s celebration at Mobo Sushi.

Quite a while back (at least 6 months), Dylan’s friend Hanalee gave him a pair of adorable learning chopsticks which he uses every now and then. But, at the restaurant, they just had the usual chopsticks tied together with a rubber band and, what do you know, Dylan was able to use them quite effectively! That evening, he and Taliana also rolled their own sushi and pigged out on edamame.


cupcakes are the best part of other people's bdays!
cupcakes are the best part!
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We finished dinner too late that evening to have an effective cake/gift opening portion of the celebration, so we had to continue celebrating the following weekend. Of course, nobody dislikes cupcake time. Look at those enthusiastic faces?? We were impressed they could wait to be served!


soup chef
soup chef
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Then, there was the annual soup party for Tom’s birthday. This is the biggest party we host where we spend the most time and energy than any other event in the year. This year was no exception. Tom took a week off and we set to work preparing nine soups (Carmelized onion soup with rosemary toast, Cashew Chili soup with Cheddar Corn Bread, Liquid Chocolate with Cinnamon Foam and Kahlua, Apricot-Brandied Pumpkin Panna-cotta soup, Asparagus-Leek soup with Bell peppers and Corn, Asian Noodle soup with Spinach and Corn), several dips (creamy cashew dip, olive and sun-dried tomato hummus and classic hummus), cupcakes (cookies ‘n’ cream, gluten-free chocolate, and gingerbread with lemon buttercream) and cookies (nut and seed butter cookies) and even lavash crackers (he did soups and soup toppings, I did the cornbread, dips, cookies and cupcakes — we’re also very grateful to Heather for watching Dylan on Saturday so we could finish off the preparations!).


happy birthday on the sax!
happy birthday on the sax!
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This year, we had a special treat: a good friend had brought his saxophone to play and when he discovered it was Tom’s birthday, he led us all in singing “Happy Birthday”! The kids just loved it and wanted him to play more. It turns out that we were celebrating on our friend Brian’s actual birthday, too, so we sang to him as well! Overall, it was a very fun party and, as always, it was awesome to share good food with good friends and family. The kids really had a great time and we’re glad that Dylan’s fever disappeared just in time for the event. More pictures are on flickr.


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cameron’s foot

This picture was taken nearly two weeks ago, but I’m woefully behind on posts! As you can see, even though she’s growing and is already so big, her foot is still no bigger than a glue stick! See how well she’s sitting up all propped up on the couch?? We can now pull her up into a sitting position just by her little arms and hands.


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my date with dylan

Dylan had a fever for 4 or 5 days running and was feeling really kind of neglected it seems…and I felt bad that I couldn’t really comfort him the way he wanted to be comforted (basically just snuggling up on my lap) because I, of course, still have to nurse Cameron and she’s gotten big enough that there isn’t that much space left on my lap if she’s in it! So, to combat some of his blues, we decided to have a “date” with just the two of us. Since our date had to be squeezed in between gymnastics and Mandarin, we didn’t have much time. After I made sure Cameron was full-up with milk, Tom stayed with her and Dylan and I went over to Natural Bridges to check out the monarchs.

Here he is walking along the boardwalk to the main viewing area. Dylan was a sweetie. He liked seeing the butterflies (and he told me this morning that he was planning on sharing his monarch butterfly notepad with his group), but he was more interested in finding this rat (ick!) that we saw scurry into the bushes!!

It was an absolutely gorgeous fall day. I wish we had just a little more time so we could have wandered out onto the beach to look at some tidepools or just play in the sand. Things to look forward to for next time…!


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13 weeks

11/11/2009
11/11/2009
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The Doodle is beginning to purposefully grab things! And, the best thing: she smiles and laughs when you laugh…!


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